SHARON and CHASE
SHARON
ballsy bitch
Who am I? I don't know. Fully. Yet. But I'm having a whale of a time finding it out.
I'm a mixed bag to different people at odd times — including me — and I'm finding my place in that.
Don't get me wrong. Just because I don't know fully yet doesn't mean I'm going to know it all in one fell swoop. But who I am is made up of all the things I sprinted, walked, and swam through. And it just so happens that it's happening live.
You catch my drift? You're front and center of my action.
I went through four big things at the same time. Undiagnosed Hashimoto's Disease and Endometriosis. Stage 3 Cervical and Thyroid cancers. All of these at the same damn time — and I'm here to refine the life and love I, me, myself want.
No tricks. No gimmicks. No fixing. I'm living intentionally. You've got to know the rules to stretch them.
I'm not for everyone and that's okay. One size doesn't fit all.
That's what happens when you live through the furnace and arrive at honesty.
No more hiding.
— Sharon
chase
"fuck it"
Baby, I'm a 60 year old dude that's had his ass handed to him by life in so many different ways and flavors that years ago I literally said, "Fuck you, God, if there is one. Fuck this life and fuck all of you."
But apparently life, or the universe, or me — whatever — had other plans.
So I'm telling the story of how I went from hating myself, and life reflecting that back in all the painfully glorious ways that only a perfect expression of living self-concept can, to a man that not only loves himself, but finds that the more I give, the more I seem to have to give.
And I have the most amazing wife.
Ever.
Why did I build this? Because whether it was intentional or not, I just felt like people were lying to me. Or they didn't fucking know. Or they just kept yapping at me even though I was asking specific questions and giving me these vague generic answers that were either based on some god I couldn't quantify or some shit they had never actually lived through. It was all theoretical.
I just wanted somebody to tell me the truth.
So that's why I built this. I know it's not going to resonate with every person. But for some of us this is exactly what we needed and what we wanted. Somebody who tells it straight and doesn't blow smoke up our asses.
One more thing. This site can feel confrontational. Intense. Like there's no warmth and very little compassion. That's not my intention. If you listen to the podcast or read the workbooks you'll find that it's intense but I'm not an asshole. Well. Maybe I'm a compassionate asshole. But I love life. I love living. I love laughter and joy and sharing. The reason this doesn't come wrapped in softness is simple. A lot of the stuff we have to do internally to reassess and reevaluate and move more comfortably through our lives is ugly. It's not pretty. It's not cute. It's not gentle. Because a lot of what happened to us to get us to where we are wasn't gentle either. So I didn't come at this soft. The other shit wasn't working. So let's try it this way.
— Chase
If you want to know more about who Chase actually is, or "was" before you go any further — read the book.
Kick Rocks: Be Real. Be Free. Be You.
Free. No email. No catch.
Because we lived all of this. Every. Single. Word.
Not theory. No "gee, I wonder if this works."
We didn't find ourselves in meditation retreats. We didn't affirm our way here. The hot rocks didn't set us free. We loved and lived our way out of the bullshit through the kind of effort no one taught us and no one showed us how to do.
We don't have a fairytale. We have a functional partnership built on the exact same processes and work found in these workbooks.
We don't hope for a good day.
We don't manifest connection.
We don't perform love for each other or anyone else.
We use a real process.
We do the real work.
Every day.
Still.
We're not your gurus. We're not looking for followers. We're looking for the ones who feel the bullshit even when they can't name it yet.
If you want rainbows and unicorns — go elsewhere. If you want to examine the evidence of your own life and finally take radical accountability for what you've been getting — you're in the right place.
We are the living evidence that if you change the inner architecture you change the life.
And that's not woo-woo bullshit.
Period.
— Sharon and Murphy
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