FAQs

why isn't your site more inviting?

what is, "inviting", as in, how are you defining, "inviting?"

If "inviting" means making you feel welcome through lies and bullshit, promises and positions designed to create a false sense unity or authority, then that is simply not a function of who I am or the work that I have created.

There are enough people "out there" making "inviting" spaces and willing to tell you what they think you want to hear. this is not that place.

if that makes you uncomfortable, then this is not the place for you.

Yet.

I can very-well imagine that there are number of degreed folks that would love to answer that for you. 

As for me, I "curse" because I can and it's comfortable for me, and I don't need anyone else's permission for me to express myself in the manner I choose.

if the language bothers you, then the content and context of my work is not going to appeal to you either.

But ask yourself one simple question and then own the answer for yourself, in that answer, you will have your whole foundation for how you are living your own life. 

Here's your question: if comfort with what other people do is a condition of your own happiness, then why are you not happier than you are now?

how can I be sure that this going to work for me?

That's not a question that I can answer for you. I have no idea how much effort and energy you're able and willing to put into the work that this demands of you.

you don't get to hold me responsible for your choices that led you here any more than you'll hold me responsible for the work that you did or didn't do; these are choices that you make and that you're responsible for.

that's called accountability.

Again, as I have said a number of times, get the free samples and see for yourself.

There may be, and I don't profess to having all the answers for other people. 

What I do know is that I've tried a shit-load of "spiritual", esoteric, psychological and "inner" work, and for me, finally, what I share here is the only thing that does it for me.

And I say that because I am the only one that can ever truly know me. That is no one else's  right or responsibility.

you have to own that.

You have enough "free" stuff and the value of this work is intrinsically based on what I feel can be somewhat quantified in dollars and in cents.

But the truth is, there is really no way to "value" our own sense of self.

that said, there is plenty of "free" stuff out there and if you don't want to pay for what I share and offer, don't.

go get the "free" stuff. 

Here?

There is a cost. And far too many of us don't want to pay, and yet, we are paying dearly every single day that we don't get to celebrate who we truly are, we are paying a price.

Then you're not ready. 

If you're looking for assurances, then you are still waiting for someone to "tell" you rather than you trusting yourself to know enough about you to move in a direction that is true and right for you.

But you see, that's another of the reasons that Sharon and I did this; getting to know yourself should seem automatic, and yet, that shit is hard, really hard, and fucking hard and often just fucking exhausting.

That said, when you feel that the time is right for you.... you'll know.

No.

period.

if you need a refund policy for this, then this is not for you. 

Nothing here is designed to serve as a "safety net".

Do or don't, but there are no refunds.

Who is this for?

Ideally, this is for people that know, even without a clear understanding of what's going on, that something in their life is "off". 

We've noted that we are in cycles of circumstances and experiences, or we can just call it "shit" that really just fucks with the idea of our own peace and happiness in the ways that we inherently believe that it should. 

We are likely people that purchased a shit-ton of materials time and time again, hoping and believing (even praying) that we may have finally found something or someone that "gets it" and that can "help" us move past places where we feel stuck in.

This is for people that, like me, are likely fed-the-fuck-up with being lied to, upsold, promised the sun and the moon, only to be left feeling more emotionally exposed and frustrated (and in some ways, left wondering if it's ever going to get better) and wanting to just be "done" with bullshit.

That's what I tried to create here.

If this speaks to you, then this might be for you.

One last thing, if my answers "piss" you off, then you are likely getting what I am saying; we just don't want to be lied to any longer.

Get Kick Rocks: The Book, totally free here on the site, and that will give you a better idea.

Other than that, I'm a gloriously married dude that finally got done with asking other people and the "world" who I was, who I should be, what I should want and how I should live.

Yeah, fuck all that.

That decision was a scary-ass proposition, but one that I am so deeply thankful for having made.

your turn!