Self-Discovery & Personal Growth
Yeah, it's okay to do, you.
This isn’t your grandma’s self-help. These workbooks and courses are for people who are done pretending they’re “fine” and ready to stare their excuses in the face. If you’re tired of your own shit and want to actually change, start here. No fluff. No fake positivity. Just the hard questions you’ve been avoiding.
THE SAMPLES ARE 100% FREE
All workbooks have a free sample. There is no need to sign up for anything.
- If you choose to skip this step, be warned: I will not refund for your commitment issues.
- Merely click on "preview" in the shop link below to get the PDF “test."
THE FOUNDATION TRILOGY
The Complete Architecture of Your Own, Real Freedom
Most people try to fix their lives one "ruckus" at a time. They buy a book for their marriage, a podcast for their confidence, and a seminar for their past—and they wonder why the structure still leans and shit still falls apart as if nothing has really changed.
You’re allowed to ask, “what the actual fuck?”
The Foundation Trilogy isn't a collection of tips; and as you have already probably figured out, this is an opportunity to a complete emotional and intellectual overhaul of your internal world. The trilogy combines Who The F*ck Is You?, From “hell no” to “HELL YES!”, and The Love You’re After into a singular, non-negotiable path of your own progress and personal journey.
By the time you finish this Trilogy, the "smooth" bullshit lies will be addressed, and you’ll have considered a wholly new perspective or you may have even replaced the bullshit with a "rough" truth that belongs to you and you alone.
You and you alone.
The Three Pillars You’ll Build:
- Pillar 1: The Reflection (Who The F*ck Is You?) – You strip away the identity built by your father, your abusers, and your failures to see the real you on your own terms.
- Pillar 2: The Line (Hell No / Hell Yes) – You burn the middle ground and learn to speak a "Hell Yes" that isn't a performance for someone else's approval.
- Pillar 3: The Truth (The Love You’re After) – You stop "auditioning" for love and start recognizing the "crumbs" you’ve been taught to mistake for loyalty.
This is for the person who is done with "trying." It is for the person who realizes that you cannot drag your old way of living and the emotional baggage, all wrapped up in internalized bullshit, into the new "you". It is the $197 investment in the only person who has been there for every heartbreak and every silent letdown: You.
The wheels might come off. The storm is coming. Build the architecture that survives it.
Below, you’ll find the individual pillars of our/your work—the specific processes required to stop the "slow surrender" of your life.
Each workbook is a standalone guide, priced at $97.
The Math of Commitment: If you choose to build your foundation one piece at a time, it will cost you $291. However, for those who already know they are done with the "ruckus" and are ready to go all-in, we offer the Foundation Trilogy for $197.
You save nearly $100 not because we’re "on sale," but because we value the person who is ready to stop "auditioning" and start building a structure that actually survives the storm.
Test the Weight for Free: Every workbook below has a Free Sample available. Download them. Read the first few pages. See if you can handle the "rough" truth we’re serving before you spend a dime.
Meaning, you get to see well before you spend a fucking dime.
If it’s not for you, you’ve merely spent some “time,” but at least you’ll know.
who the f*ck is you?
WHO THE FUCK IS YOU? A GUIDE TO SEEING: THE REFLECTION
I always want to make sure that you know, in the event that you may have “stumbled” here without knowing anything about me, the author and creator of these works, that nothing, including this workbook, is about immediate comfort and ease. So if you’re here because some website, other than my own, somehow directed you here and you’re expecting warm and fuzzy, a list of post-able memes and cute inspirational quotes, well, this is not that place.
But if you’re here intentionally….
You’re here because something inside you is screaming for the truth and not that “truth” wrapped up in endless affirmations and toxic positivity. You’re most likely done with the polished, pretty lies you’ve been fed your whole life. So, these are not the stories your parents, your exes, your bosses, or even your own fucked-up thinking may have convinced you that that shit was gospel. You’re here because you’re tired of carrying the weight of words that were never yours to begin with.
This isn’t another self-help workbook where you’re going to sit and contemplate endlessly without actionable, real-world exercises that you tailor for yourself.
I am, at best, merely a guide that is sharing what has and continues to work for me. At worst, I am someone, literally, telling you that a great deal of the shit were taught about life and how we navigate life was and still is, bullshit. And even more, that a lot of the new-age feel-good, check-your-vibration crowd and the popular “think positive” schtick, although it has its place, is overused, misunderstood and shared by those that may not have even figured how who the fuck they are yet. But are trying to “help” you. And as I say, whatever you need to do for you, do it. But understand the “why”.
Think on that before you purchase anything here....
From "hell no" to "Hell yes!"
Hell No / Hell Yes is not a guide on "effective communication" or a series of tips for "better boundaries"—it’s a raw, high-stakes audit of the life you’ve been settling for. It is the definitive line in the sand for those who are tired of living in the lukewarm "Maybe" of unfulfilling relationships and self-betrayal.
This isn’t another polite "negotiation" manual—it’s a surgical strike against the people-pleasing, the "faking the funk," and the fear-based loyalty that has cost you your sovereignty.
Through unfiltered truth and grounded exercises, it demands that you identify the "Hell Nos" you’ve been tolerating and the "Hell Yeses" you’ve been too afraid to claim.
By the end, you’ll know exactly:
- The "Hell Nos" you’ve been dressing up as "compromise" or "patience",
- Why you’ve been afraid to speak your "Hell Yes" into the world,
- How to stop "half-assing" your life and start living on your own terms.
Because living in the middle ground isn't "safe"—it’s a slow death of the spirit. For those who are done negotiating with their own unhappiness and are ready to finally choose for themselves.
no more middle ground. no more hiding.
the list you've been avoiding
The Love You’re After is not about finding “the one” or performing your way into being chosen—it’s a raw, self-guided journey into the truth beneath how you’ve been loving, and how you’ve been taught to settle for crumbs.
This isn’t another “love yourself first” pep talk—it’s a mirror for the lies you’ve been swallowing about what love requires from you. Through real-world definitions, grounded exercises, and unfiltered reflections, it confronts the patterns, illusions, and bullshit rules that keep love just out of reach.
By the end, you’ll know exactly:
- What you’ve been tolerating (and why),
- The “love” you’ve been mistaking for loyalty to your own fear,
- How to stop auditioning for relationships and start choosing them.
Because another year of the same cycles isn’t a life—it’s a slow surrender. For those who are done waiting to be picked.
no more hiding from the truth.