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This isn’t your grandma’s self-help. These workbooks and courses are for people who are done pretending they’re “fine” and ready to stare their excuses in the face. If you’re tired of your own shit and want to actually change, start here. No fluff. No fake positivity. Just the hard questions you’ve been avoiding.
what's holding you back?
THE FOUNDATION TRILOGY
The Complete Architecture of Your Own, Real Freedom
Most people try to fix their lives one "ruckus" at a time. They buy a book for their marriage, a podcast for their confidence, and a seminar for their past—and they wonder why the structure still leans and shit still falls apart as if nothing has really changed.
You’re allowed to ask, “what the actual fuck?”
The Foundation Trilogy isn't a collection of tips; and as you have already figured out, this is an opportunity to a complete emotional and intellectual overhaul of your internal world. The trilogy combines Who The F*ck Is You?, From “hell no” to “HELL YES!”, and The Love You’re After into a singular, non-negotiable path of your own progress and personal journey.
By the time you finish this Trilogy, the "smooth" bullshit lies will be addressed, and you’ll have considered a wholly new perspective or you may have even replaced the bullshit with a "rough" truth that belongs to you and you alone.
You and you alone.
The Three Pillars You’ll Build:
- Pillar 1: The Reflection (Who The F*ck Is You?) – You strip away the identity built by your father, your abusers, and your failures to see the real you on your own terms.
- Pillar 2: The Line (Hell No / Hell Yes) – You burn the middle ground and learn to speak a "Hell Yes" that isn't a performance for someone else's approval.
- Pillar 3: The Truth (The Love You’re After) – You stop "auditioning" for love and start recognizing the "crumbs" you’ve been taught to mistake for loyalty.
This is for the person who is done with "trying." It is for the person who realizes that you cannot drag your old way of living and the emotional baggage, all wrapped up in internalized bullshit, into the new "you". It is the $197 investment in the only person who has been there for every heartbreak and every silent letdown: You.
The wheels might come off. The storm is coming. Build the architecture that survives it.
Below, you’ll find the individual pillars of our work, that becomes yours—the specific processes required to stop the "slow surrender" of your life.
Each workbook is a standalone guide, priced at $97 0r $147.
The Math of Commitment: If you choose to build your foundation one piece at a time, it would have cost you $291. However, for those who already know they are done with the "ruckus" and are ready to go all-in, we offer the Foundation Trilogy for $197.
You save nearly $100 not because we’re "on sale," but because we value the person who is ready to stop "auditioning" and start building a structure that actually survives the storm.
THE foundation IS READY. THE "PRICE" IS REMOVED AS AN EXCUSE.
We know that $197 is a commitment. We also know that most people will spend that same $200 this month on bullshit that keeps them distracted from the life they actually want.
The "now" Option: We’ve removed the last hurdle. You can start the full 60-Day Build today for just $65.66.
That’s three (3) payments. No interest. No hidden bullshit.
For less than the cost of a single $97 workbook, you get the Full Trilogy and 60 days of live, real-time access to Sharon and me.
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let's do the math.
Why the Trilogy is the only logical move:
- It's Cheaper to Start: You get $291 worth of workbooks plus 8 weeks of Live Intensives for a lower entry price ($65x3 monthly payments) than a single standalone book ($97).
- It's a Full Build: You aren't patching a "leak"; you're assessing the foundation.
- It's Accountability: When you pony up for the Trilogy, you're telling yourself: "I'm not a "hobbyist" anymore; I' get to choose."
- you have the option to pay in full if you so desire.
who the f*ck is you?
WHO THE FUCK IS YOU? A GUIDE TO SEEING: THE REFLECTION
Workbook 1 in the series
I always want to make sure that you know, in the event that you may have “stumbled” here without knowing anything about me, the author and creator of these works, that nothing, including this workbook, is about immediate comfort and ease. So if you’re here because some website, other than my own, somehow directed you here and you’re expecting warm and fuzzy, a list of post-able memes and cute inspirational quotes, well, this is not that place.
But if you’re here intentionally….
You’re here because something inside you is screaming for the truth and not that “truth” wrapped up in endless affirmations and toxic positivity. You’re most likely done with the polished, pretty lies you’ve been fed your whole life. So, these are not the stories your parents, your exes, your bosses, or even your own fucked-up thinking may have convinced you that that shit was gospel. You’re here because you’re tired of carrying the weight of words that were never yours to begin with.
This isn’t another self-help workbook where you’re going to sit and contemplate endlessly without actionable, real-world exercises that you tailor for yourself.
I am, at best, merely a guide that is sharing what has and continues to work for me. At worst, I am someone, literally, telling you that a great deal of the shit were taught about life and how we navigate life was and still is, bullshit. And even more, that a lot of the new-age feel-good, check-your-vibration crowd and the popular “think positive” schtick, although it has its place, is overused, misunderstood and shared by those that may not have even figured how who the fuck they are yet. But are trying to “help” you. And as I say, whatever you need to do for you, do it. But understand the “why”.
Think on that before you purchase anything here....
$97
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From "hell no" to "Hell yes!"
workbook 2 in the series
Hell No / Hell Yes is not a guide on "effective communication" or a series of tips for "better boundaries"—it’s a raw, high-stakes audit of the life you’ve been settling for. It is the definitive line in the sand for those who are tired of living in the lukewarm "Maybe" of unfulfilling relationships and self-betrayal.
This isn’t another polite "negotiation" manual—it’s a surgical strike against the people-pleasing, the "faking the funk," and the fear-based loyalty that has cost you your sovereignty.
Through unfiltered truth and grounded exercises, it demands that you identify the "Hell Nos" you’ve been tolerating and the "Hell Yeses" you’ve been too afraid to claim.
By the end, you’ll know exactly:
- The "Hell Nos" you’ve been dressing up as "compromise" or "patience",
- Why you’ve been afraid to speak your "Hell Yes" into the world,
- How to stop "half-assing" your life and start living on your own terms.
Because living in the middle ground isn't "safe"—it’s a slow death of the spirit. For those who are done negotiating with their own unhappiness and are ready to finally choose for themselves.
no more middle ground. no more hiding.
$97
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The Love you're after
a self-guided journey for the love you deserve
workbook 3 in the series
Before you go any further, this workbook is ultimately all about you. But we, Sharon and I, are willing a little awkwardness in this description because we both felt it vitally important for you to know how this came about. The pacing here is a little off-center, and yet, we both felt that was the way that we wanted to share this with you.
This is not a workbook about how to “get the person” or “manifest your soulmate,” or anything else that so many of us have been conditioned to expect when we start talking about intimate relationship, loving another, being loved by another.
In creating this, the goal was to speak to you as if you were sitting across from Sharon and me, and were taking the time to share with you how we got to where we are now in this life of love and connection. How we found this place of connection and union in ways that neither of us had ever been taught or shown at any time along our dating lives.
Ever.
Nothing here is designed to be a quick fix, a trick, or a set of rules to finally be “chosen.” Nope. There is none of that.
It is a whole-hearted opportunity to spend time with yourself in a way that we hope will be enlightening for you in your own way, and in your time. This was created to be an honest, raw self-guided journey into the truth underneath the way you’ve been loving, performing, accepting, denying and trying to be loved by another.
It’s meant to be a pathway into your own personal patterns you’ve repeated, the illusions you’ve protected, the ache you’ve carried and called “normal.” This is not about psychology, mysticism or “spirituality” in the senses that many of us have already experienced. It’s not a denial, rather, it’s simply not the focus or purpose of how and why Sharon and I created this.
You will not find soft affirmations or polished promises here. Nope. What you will find are the words we lived—unfiltered, bitter at times, and healing all the same. You will be asked to name the lies you’ve been living, even if you aren’t even aware of them right now.
Based on the truth that each of us is allowed to stop begging for love. That at some point, to have the life that you desire, you have to face the cost of shrinking yourself small enough to be tolerated. There must be the question of why being “easy to love” has made you forgettable, even to yourself.
Inside are chapters that are meant to walk you into the patterns beneath your own pain, the difference between love and illusion, the truth of what it has cost to perform, and the recognition that you were never “too much” (ever)—and instead, consider that you were misunderstood.
Each section is laced with real-world definitions, grounded exercises, and reflection questions designed not to fix you (you were never broken), but to return you to yourself—your full, unedited self.
Sharon and I lived this. And we still do.
We have found that the relationship itself has its own life and in nurturing ourselves, we then nurture one another.
And this lets our love thrive and grow and radiate and express the wonders of our dreams in ways that would never have happened had we not taken the journey that we did.
This guide was written not as theory, but as lived truth. We wrote it because we’ve been the ones who stayed longer, tried harder, and finally stopped pretending crumbs were enough.
You deserve real love.
Not later.
Not when you’ve "proven" yourself.
Now.
It’s time.
$147
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