THE SINGLE LIFE: END THE WAITING GAME

Yeah, it's okay to do, you and Stop waiting for the rescue.

This isn’t your grandma’s self-help. These workbooks and courses are for people who are done pretending they’re “fine” and ready to stare their excuses in the face. If you’re tired of your own shit and want to actually change, start here. No fluff. No fake positivity. Just the hard questions you’ve been avoiding.

STOP CALLING IT BAD LUCK, OR BAD TIMING or "maybe it's just me."


You’re recycling the same dating mistakes because you really don't know how to correct and realign yourself to and for the kind of relationship that you really want.


And this isn't about blame! It's about learning and understanding.


If any of that offended you, well, this is probably not going to be for you.


Facts.


This isn't a fluffy TOP-10 list to make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside (like so much of the other shit online seems to be). This is some of the truth about the patterns that are repeating in your life. If you're ready to stop settling for experiences contrary to the deepest desires of your heart, read this.


Download the guide and face these truths that others either won't or can't:


The Pace Lie: Why moving too fast or too slow is a mistake that creates unrealistic expectations or missed opportunities.


The Avoidance: The cost of ignoring red flags (e.g., lack of respect, inconsistency) and why you don't trust your instincts.


The Emotional Hangover: Why you keep making your date compete with your ex by constantly mentioning past relationships.


The Insecurity: How the feeling that you need to try too hard to impress comes from not feeling "good enough" as you are right now.


The Ultimate Lie: Why not (really) knowing what you want is the mistake that reveals  that you haven't taken the time to get to know yourself in a way that actually celebrates you and allows you to have relationship you desire and deserve.


No fluff. No bullshit. No excuses. Just the real-world content you may need to move forward.


P.S. If you read this and decide it's "too intense," you're right. Save your energy and stay exactly where you are.
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The single life

The Single Life isn’t about passing time or playing the victim. It’s about this: You’re single for a reason. 


Maybe it’s the choices you’ve made, the bullshit you’ve tolerated, or the fact that you’d rather complain than change. Either way, it’s on you. and that's not about "blame", that's about owning it so that you can finally address it correctly.


This workbook doesn’t hold your hand. it allows you to look at the patterns, the excuses, and the half-assed effort you’ve been calling “dating.” No endless affirmations. No fake, toxic positivity. Just the hard questions you’ve been avoiding:


  • Why do you stay when you know it’s wrong?
  • What are you actually afraid of?
  • Would you even date you?


If you’re tired of the same cycles, the same disappointments, and the same tired stories, this can be wake-up call. 


Stop waiting for love to find you. Start building a life—and a self—that you know is worth loving.

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the list you've been avoiding

The List You’ve Been Avoiding isn’t about journaling your feelings or collecting another set of affirmations you’ll ignore. It’s a raw, unfiltered excavation of the self you’ve been too afraid to claim—the one buried under should-haves, inherited shame, and the stories you’ve let others write for you.


This isn’t self-help. It’s self-confrontation. Through lived truth, grounded exercises, and the kind of honesty that makes you want to look away, you’ll finally:


  • Name the patterns you’ve been repeating (and why),
  • Burn the illusions that keep you small,
  • Write a story that’s yours—not your parents’, not society’s, not your past’s.


Because the life you’re tolerating? That’s not a life. It’s a slow betrayal of who you could be.


For those who are done pretending they don’t know what needs to change.


no more hiding.

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who the F*uck is You?

Who the f*ck Is You... 


isn’t about “finding yourself.” It’s about this: You’ve spent your whole life letting other people tell you who you are. Parents, partners, society—hell, even your own fear. And now? You don’t even recognize the person in the literal mirror.


You’re exhausted from shaping yourself to fit into their expectations, their little emotional boxes, their ideas of who you should be.


You’re done with the noise, the doubt, and the quiet voice in your head asking, "But what do I actually want?"—because you’ve buried it so deep, you’re not sure you’d even recognize the answer.


This isn’t a "weekend" workbook. It’s a personal and intimate pause. No inspirational quotes. No hand-holding. Just the hard questions you’ve been avoiding:


  • Who are you when no one’s watching?
  • What are you pretending not to know about yourself?
  • If you had to describe yourself honestly, could you do it without using someone else’s words?


If you’re tired of performing for others, tired of pretending to be someone other than who you really are, and tired of feeling like a fraud in your own life, this is a start. 


Stop letting "them" define you. Define yourself—or keep living the lie.

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YOUR PERSONAL STORY: THE FULL VERSION

Genesis was the spark. This is the fire.


You’ve named the lies. You’ve questioned the scripts. Now it’s time to address the old stories with a well-deserved confidence and knowledge that it's your time to build something that actually belongs to you on your terms.


This isn’t a workbook. It’s an emotional journey with every version of yourself you’ve ever abandoned, every truth you’ve ingested and held inside to keep the peace, and every “should” that’s kept you small. Where Genesis helped you see the cracks in your foundation, The Full Version hands you the inner guides—and the blueprints to rebuild.


Here’s what you’re really signing up for:


  • The deep dive into the patterns you’ve spent a lifetime repeating (and why you’re likely still clinging to them).
  • The hard questions no one else will ask you: What are you actually willing to walk away from? What are you finally ready to claim?
  • The tools to really feel your way through your self-concept, not as a one-time exercise, but as a daily practice of personal relationship.


This is for those who finished Genesis and thought, “Okay… now what?”—or those who know they’re ready to skip the warm-up and go straight to the work.


Because self-awareness without action is just another form of hiding. And aren’t we fucking done hiding?


No spectators allowed.

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f*ck being broke

END THE FINANCIAL LIE


You don’t really have a budget problem….get your head and heart around that.


You have a behavioral problem disguised as a budget problem.


Money doesn't have wings—it runs away because you are unconsciously chasing it off.


You're exhausted because no matter how much you earn, it all disappears, and the knot in your stomach remains.


Stop pretending this is "bad luck" or "the economy." This is the pattern you are repeating whether you’re consciously aware of it or not.


This is not a long-ass, dry course on investing. It's a gut-check financial exorcism that I, and many, many others had to go through.


This work is designed to help you dismantle the shame, the worthiness issues, and the inherited emotional rules that dictate your spending, saving, and earning potential.


You will allow yourself to finally stop looking for the magic external fix and start closing the leaks you created yourself.


THIS IS YOUR AUDIT. THIS IS THE TRUTH:


  • The Worthiness Trap: Confront the inherited beliefs about money that ensure you never keep more than you feel you deserve.
  • The Leaks: Identify the emotional void you constantly fill with unnecessary purchases, and plug the psychological holes that drain your account.
  • The Pattern: Force yourself to look at why you run from financial clarity and keep repeating the same cycle of feast-or-famine.
  • Beyond the BS: Get the tools to audit your thoughts and feelings about money daily—not just your bank account balance—to ensure you maintain freedom.


If you’re ready to admit that your hands can consciously be on the wheel of this financial life of yours, and you’re willing to do the work, this is where you can start.


Stop apologizing for your ambition.


Start earning it.

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