Do you want to know something most people won’t say? We never set out to do this. We just wanted to share with people what it's like to find love. Real love. Not that wishy-washy shit that movies perpetuate, or that greeting card writers think can be expressed in few lines of text.

But what we saw—again and again when we started sharing our story and the how—was that most wanted shortcuts. Quick fixes. Overnight miracles. Results without effort.

Life doesn’t work that way.

Ever.

We didn’t plan this. We didn’t sit down with some grand vision of a business, or a brand, or a way to "change lives"; this was all about the two of us getting to a place of raw honesty with one another that life and Self demanded. And that we both finally understood in ways that neither of us had ever imagined were possible.

What you see here came out of survival, out of loss, out of staring life dead in the eye and refusing to fold, or crumble.

Or try to run away any longer.

chase

"fuck it"

November 2, 1994. damn-near left this life at my own hands because I didn't think that I could take it, "life" any longer. July 31, 1999. death of my infant son. didn't think that I could it, "life" any longer.

I was wrong.

Still here.

Fuck it.

Life can be amazing.

sharon

ballsy bitch

Undiagnosed Hashimoto’s Disease and Endometriosis. Stage 3 Cervical and Thyroid cancers. All of this at the same time—helped me refine the life that I wanted to live and love in a whole new way. 

I realized, more than I ever had before, just how lovely and wonderful I am, just as I am.

No need to hide, me. No longer.

I get to be me as I want to be.

Life comes a'callin'...

When Sharon was diagnosed with stage 3 cervical and thyroid cancers—the kind of realities that splits you open—we faced the same question we always had: can we keep going? The answer, somehow, was yes. Out of that honesty came these workbooks, these courses, these pieces of our lives turned into something that you can hold.

We’re not here to sell you on bullshit or make-believe. We’re not here to play the "we have all the answers" game either. If something here resonates, take it. If it doesn’t, move on. No hard feelings.

We’re over the bullshit. Over the salesmanship. Over the noise.

Over the lies.

And maybe, if you’re honest, you are too.