Before You Buy ANYTHING Here

Yes, read this before you purchase anything here.

Read every word. Or this is really not the place for you.

“Why is this man expecting me to actually read all of this, when all I want to do is buy the workbook?”

Simply; I want you to know what you’re about to walk into if you do decide to continue.

As I was talking to my wife, months ago, about doing this whole project in a constructive, organized way, I looked around at who was doing what, how they were doing it and how my voice might lend anything useful to what appears to be a very, very crowded space of life coaches, healers, gurus and others all claiming to have the answer.

I am none of that.

As I wept in my wife’s lap at my frustration over not being able to effectively translate what I had to do in my life to get to where I was in that moment, I realized I was bending over backward to not offend others from a very genuine place in my heart to help, but in trying to coat everything in that rah-rah, toxic-positivity varnish that is so rampant, I found that I simply couldn’t sustain it—and the truth is, that’s never been my wheelhouse; there are some truths that simply don’t have a “gleeful” component to them. They are raw. They demand of us that which dare not release or give up. The “rah-rah”… It’s not how I survived. It’s not how I lead. It’s not how I got free from the bullshit I called “living”.

I am in no way suggesting that those other perspectives and methods are ineffective, rather, in all of my own personal search for answers, none of those really granted me the depth of reason and directness that I needed.

For me.

What I wanted, for me, in all those years of pain, frustration, confusion and emotional isolation, was for someone to tell it to me straight, with a rawness that was compassionate, and yet at the same, would not accept my “excuses” or “reasons” for not following through with what they asked me to do, and what was asked of me as a person.

I am that person.

Since I am, this is a perfect time to tell you that I am one of the most compassionate people on this planet, and yet, I also know that compassion can only go so far when one is trying to come out of their own personal darkness, on their own terms, for their own reasons.

So with that, let me tell you why most of you, yes, most of you, should keep your money, think of me and what I am doing, in the manner in which I do it, in any way that you so choose. Because truth is, I am literally trying to dissuade most of you from even in bothering to do this.

At all.

What no one, not a single person ever told me, was that there would come a time during the search, during the emotional reconstruction and liberation, that would challenge my sense of peace and wellbeing in such a way as to, literally, cause me to ask of myself, the universe, life, whatever you want to call it, “what the actual fuck have I done?”

Your time will come.

Not maybe. Not perhaps. No. Your time will come.

When that happens, some of you will say “fuck this” and stop. What I will tell you now, is that when that moment comes, and again, it will, do what you need to do, to get your balance back. But that balance won’t come in a bottle, at the end of a pipe, in random bedrooms with people that are merely physical bandaids for the emotional pain that you’re experiencing. What you won’t do, is blame me, the universe, my workbook, life, god, or whatever else it is “out there”. Well, maybe you will, but you will, by then, understand the relationship between your own self-concept and your responses to life’s challenges, up and downs, and moments that just plain, suck.

You will cry. You will rage. You will want to quit. You will loathe the very nature of life. You will want to take it all back.

But you will continue.

You Will Continue.

You will continue because you will have really done the work to get to that moment and you will understand and remember, perhaps not immediately in that moment, that you are fucking stronger and more powerful than you even dared imagine. You will remember that, perhaps for the first time ever, that you are someone that you can trust. You will remember that what you are experiencing, like every other thing that has ever happened to you, is just a moment. You will remember to breathe, be in the moment, ask the appropriate questions and commune with that new appreciation and love that you have for yourself.

You will remember the person that you dared to believe in.

You will, remember.

But you will hurt first. You will feel the fear, doubt and confusion quite acutely. And quite personally.

But you will remember.

And you will continue.

But only if you understand the stakes.

And only if you give your all.

In the end, you will know, you.

You.

01

Vision

Who are you? Who do you want to be?

02

Honesty & Persistence

The "homework", the assignments and the tasks are all designed to grant you more and more vision into the steps needed for your own freedom.

03

Creativity

It's not "easy", but it's worth every breath, every moment, every challenge and every tear.

04

Dedication

You made the commitment and so have we. Now, you do the work.

Do the work.

No one can live this life for you. Period.

You will either do the work yourself, or you won’t.

It’s that simple.

There is no one here to “rescue” you.

We have all—and I do mean all of us—lived lives shaped by ideas we didn’t create. Rules we didn’t agree to. Shit that got handed down to us and called “culture” or “tradition” or “fate”

Sometimes it was fear.

Sometimes it was a lack of money.

Sometimes it was just waking up every day thinking maybe you weren’t enough.

But either way—

it kept you small.

It kept you quiet.

It kept you obedient.

And I’m telling you now—if you don’t decide for yourself to reclaim your own life and sense of Self, no one will do it for you. They won’t because they can’t; no one out there can live your life for you.

Not me.

Nothing we offer you here.

Nothing.

Except you.

Because at some point,

you have to be the one who says:

“I’m not living like this anymore.”

And mean it.

Nothing here is designed to coddle, commiserate or celebrate anything about the “old” life that is in opposition to the person you desire to be, and the life you want to live.

So If you’re reading this, understand this:

What you’re about to begin, should you decide to purchase, isn’t a course—it’s a commitment to yourself in ways that simply are not right for some. And that’s totally okay.

But this is a whole, direct, unapologetic decision to address anything and everything, anyone and everyone that has ever opposed the full, unfiltered expression of who you really are and what you truly desire.

“Anything and everything, anyone and everyone that would oppose the whole and free expression of who you really are and what you truly desire to be and to have, must Kick Rocks.” — Chase Murphy, Jr.

And for most our lives, we have been our own opposition, without even knowing it.

No more.

Everything here is a bold and overt challenge to your opposing patterns. Your excuses. Your silence. Your buried instincts.

There will be no traditional affirmations, no spiritual bypassing, no fantasy that someone else will rescue you.

And no hand-holding that lets you off the hook.

What you will find here is raw, real, irreversible clarity.

If you stay, something in you will be reclaimed—

and it will not ask for permission.

I realize that this perspective and philosophy is off-putting to some of you, and here’s the thing.

So?

So it’s off-putting, and you may feel that I could have said this in a more inviting way. And you’re right - I could have. But I told you from the very beginning, I am not here to please or coddle or commiserate the “old”. If this resonates with you, then get on with it. If it doesn’t, that’s cool too. See how simple that is for you and I? If you’re more concerned about how you think my demeanor is over getting the actual fuck out of the cycles that you keep repeating, then we both know that nothing here is for you.

Period.

And that’s okay.

Perhaps in time you will be.

Or not.

“I have tried other programs, but Chase is unlike anyone that I have met. He is so different and I love that about him. Thank you, Chase.

Erica, New York

"My life is beautiful now, in ways that I didn't even know it could be. You deserve to take this course and let yourself be free."

Amanda, Dallas